The way our culture in New York is looking at the issue is that they present Gay Marriage as being about giving rights to people who didn't have them, what in fact they are doing is taking the rights of Heterosexuals away. Blind people can't see, and Gay People can't make children which is the point of marriage, and yet our government doesn't give blind people drivers licenses in the name of fighting discrimination. The reason the government does not give a drivers license to a blind person is because they could be a detriment to the system. Recreating another, "Don't Ask Don't Tell" as to the very definition of marriage as reinforcing procreation is wrong. We are putting the burden on society to protect those that we know can not reinforce the behavior necessary for procreation.